Long distance relationships are something that a lot of people get involved with for various reasons. Often it’s amongst young couples when one or both side of the relationship move away from home to go to college.

There are different debates going around as to the effectiveness of long term relationships. I have the cynic view that most of them can’t and there are a few reasons for this.

For the following example I will use a young male who was living at home with his parents. He spent a lot of time with his girlfriend before moving away to college, this is a classic long distance relationship. He will go off to college and they would decide that they will just see each other at events like holidays.

Sadly though college provides too much of a temptation for males and they are likely to cheat. With the constant parting and drinking, the temptation to cheat at college could be way too much.

It is normally the case that if a man thinks that he can get away with being unfaithful, then he probably will be, and a long term relationship is the perfect setting for this. Being in a long term relationship means that the chances of you discovering that your partner is cheating are low.

Another reason why long term relationships can be doomed is because people grow apart. You both will probably make new groups of friends and develop whole separate lives too.

The only time when a long distance relationship can work is if there’s light at the end of the tunnel and it won’t be long distance for too long. It is most probably not going to work if you are going to be apart for several years.

So if you and your partner have recently split up due to long distance then I would seriously consider everything before giving things another try. There is no point just going to get back with your ex for some company, as you spend that much time apart you are pretty much always alone anyway.

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