Most men who have dated a number of women will attest to the fact that being the nice guy won’t really get the girls hanging around you. A mysterious air seems to attract more women – when they feel there’s a lot of challenge about you, they are more captivated.

No, women do not like insensitivity at all. They never want a man to mistreat them. Confident men seem to be more reliable, that’s why most women are mesmerized with them. This is the type of guy who stands with his head high to defend his principles and beliefs, without being disparaging. They seem to have a mind of their own and won’t normally fold up to a woman’s moanings and pleadings. The nice guy may always accede to the caprice of a woman, but the truth is, most women consider this a confirmation of weakness under pressure. While women love getting their way as they conquer every challenge, they will think they have prevailed over a guy and lose a bit of respect for him.

So what is this telling the men? Well, it doesn’t mean you have to be a farce. The first move is to be confident without being fake. Have the ‘hey, I like you, but I got along fine before you came along and I’ll be fine if you break up with me’ mentality. You can always assess how the relationship is going and give her some attention so she will feel important.

Also be self-confident, even if you are stressed. One of the most self-confident individuals I know also seem to be wonderful lovers – and thats the truth. My ex bf utilized instant performer to make sure he was on top form, which he learned about after reading through a Instant Performer review in the magazines.

Don’t give in to everything she asks. Not only will she come to expect it and ignore your worth in the relationship, but some of her respect for you will be lost. Be willing to listen to her moan,groan and complain at your refusals. This doesn’t mean you should never give in. Far from it. Just not every time. This way when you give way, she will feel you’re doing it because you really love her and want her to be happy. Never give in just because you’re not in the mood to argue. Settle for a compromise instead; it’s the better alternative to get both parties contented.

Don’t ever doubt that a woman will think she doesn’t matter because you don’t give in. There are a lot more effective methods to manifest your love. A good way to show a woman you love her is by doing things she doesn’t ask for. Cook a meal for her or praise her out of the blue instead of when it is being solicited. Don’t be a lapdog when it comes to love and relationships. Do the unexpected rather than what people expect from you. Being spontaneous is a whole lot better than being predictable. Just be you and not anybody else, and be confident about it. Women will like an honest guy over someone who’s trying to be something you’re not.


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